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Posted by on Aug 29th, 2011 in Home | 0 comments

This site is all about my unique blend of classical dressage, traditional horsemanship and — yes — clicker training. If you have any question about how all that could possibly fit together, just browse around the site.  If the answers to your questions about clicker training horses are not here, well, just email or call me. I’m always happy to answer any questions. For more help on clicker training horses, dressage and “true” horsemanship check out the Links page for my favorite websites from around the world. If you...

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The Importance of a Balanced Mouth

Posted by on Sep 5th, 2010 in Health & Wellbeing | 1 comment

I talk a lot about setting a horse up for success.  You could go back and read this article on My Secret Weapon for a reminder.  In that article I talk about seeing the little things and how they add up for the better or worse! Horses are remarkably quick studies.  They are also designed to want to get along.  In Mary Hunter’s kind review of my book she quoted one of my favorite sayings:  “If the horse knew what you wanted and was confident that he was able to do it, he’d BE doing it.”  So, if it seems like your...

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My Book Gets a Shout-Out

Posted by on Sep 5th, 2010 in Clicker training | 0 comments

Mary Hunter, over at stalecheerios.com, wrote up a really lovely review of my book on her website.  I so appreciate when people really ‘get’ the message.  Here’s a quote from Mary’s review: “Sharon Foley’s underlying philosophy is that the “horse would be doing what was asked of him if only he were clear about what was wanted and was confident that he could do it.” Our horses aren’t trying to be brats or challenge us or make us angry. However, they often don’t understand what we want or why they...

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In Memory of Roxi – May 10, 1998 to August 10, 2010

Posted by on Aug 12th, 2010 in Featured | 6 comments

This week we lost our beloved Shepherd, Roxi, at age 12.  I wrote this for her. There is a hole in the Universe where you used to be. I go through my day tripping over the impressions you left in my routine. Like a photograph negative I see the outline of you. But it is not you. At the door. Under the coffee table. At my feet under my desk. I get out of bed – late because you didn’t make me get up. I wander aimlessly in the morning thinking there is something I’m supposed to be doing. You would have told me. You knew our every move. ...

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Grass – The Carpet of Motivation

Posted by on Jul 17th, 2010 in Clicker training, Solving Problems | 4 comments

I wrote this article several years ago.  It had gotten lost in the shuffle of updating my website.  Unfortunately the video that had gone along with it is among the missing.  But, here is the article anyway.   –Sharon Here in New England one of the things I really miss in the winter is the ability to ride outside on grass.  Or, as we like to call it, the ‘Carpet of Motivation’.  The reason it has earned that name is because of all the food rewards we’ve offered—and we’ve used just about every possible treat under...

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Finding what motivates a change

Posted by on Jul 11th, 2010 in Clicker training, Health & Wellbeing, Horsemanship, Solving Problems | 0 comments

This week I worked with Libby, a 30 year old Quarter Horse mare, for the first time. Libby and her owner, Kirsten, were referred to me by Libby’s massage therapist, Heather Davis. Libby suffers from some lameness due to injury and hard use (before Kirsten). Not surprisingly as a result she holds her body very tightly. The massage therapy has helped Libby but Heather believed that if Libby could become more mentally relaxed that it would help her body to relax as well. This is where I come in. Kirsten had started a little bit of...

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Thoughts on Softness and Breathing on the Trail

Posted by on Jun 30th, 2010 in Digging Deeper, Guest Writers, Horsemanship, Laurie Grann | 0 comments

Editor’s Note: Laurie Grann is a dear friend and a most excellent horse woman.  She recently participated in a week long clinic with Mark Rashid.  She wrote up her thoughts about how she is working his ideas into her every day riding.  The result is what follows.  Perhaps if we are all very nice to her she will contribute again! Today, my sister and I went on a 14 mile ride–2 loops of about 7 miles each.  The first loop was mostly flat and good footing and took us 1 hour and 20 minutes.  The second loop was climbing and...

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Of Life and Horses by Ann Nyberg Bradley

Posted by on Apr 27th, 2010 in Book/Video Reviews, Horsemanship | 0 comments

I have “known” Ann Bradley (in the cyber-sense) for many years. I’ve always felt in her a kindred spirit, a person of like mind. So, it is no surprise, really, for me to be writing now that I nodded my way through her book, “Of Life and Horses: The Nature of the Horse.” I expected to enjoy the book and I did! This is not a book about training horses in the sense of providing “how-to’s”. This book is about enlightenment and perspective. It comes from her lifetime with horses which started...

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Changing Habits One Step at a Time

Posted by on Apr 22nd, 2010 in Horsemanship | 0 comments

On a recent visit my client, Nell, told me about an interview she listened to with Dr. David Bresler.  FYI,  David E. Bresler, PhD, LAc is a neuroscientist, board certified acupuncturist and health psychologist, author, and educator best known for his pioneering work with people in chronic pain.  Anyway, during the interview much of the conversation was about strategies for changing habits that are really hard to break, like smoking or addictive eating.  Call...

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Everything You Wanted to Know and More about your OTTB

Posted by on Mar 29th, 2010 in Book/Video Reviews, Starting/restarting | 2 comments

One of the members of the Clickryder group responded to an inquiry about retraining Thoroughbreds off of the track by referring her to a website (www.helpfortbs.org) created to answer this very question.  Out of curiosity I followed the link and found the e-book, free to download, that was mentioned. The book is titled “A Guide to Understanding and Retraining Your Off Track Thoroughbred.”   It is over 80 pages and packed full of detailed information about what an OTTB experienced as a race horse and his life on the track.  It...

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