In my Secret Weapon post I talked about how important it is to remain focused on what we want and rewarding that and only that.
Read it here if you want to be reminded about it or missed it the first time.
In her article in Psychology Today titled, Trainers with Jackhammers Need Not Apply, Susan Friedman, Ph.D. talks about this very issue from a slightly different point of view. And, hearing the same thing said...